Ways To Connect

The most important thing in the life of a young person is the presence of a caring adult. Here are some ways you can demonstrate your compassion.

1. Notice them.
2. Learn their names
3. Look in their eyes when you talk to them.
4. Listen to them.
5. Tell them their feelings are okay.
6. Be honest.
7. Be yourself.
8. Notice when they are acting differently.
9. Present options when they seek your council.
10. Play outside together.
11. Surprise them.
12. Send them a letter or postcard.
13. Follow them when they lead.
14. Discuss their dreams and nightmares.
15. Learn what they have to teach.
16. Show up at their concerts, games and events.
17. Encourage them to help others.
18. Find common interests.
19. Listen to their favorite music with them.
20. Keep the promises you make.
21. Point out what you like about them.
22. Clip magazine pictures or articles that interest them.
23. Ask for their opinion.
24. Let them solve most of their own problems.
25. Help them become an expert at something.
26. Introduce them to new experiences.
27. Tell them about yourself.
28. Admit when you make a mistake.
29. Marvel at what they can do.
30. Tell them how proud you are of them.
31. Ask them to help you.
32. Chaperone a dance.
33. Inspire their creativity.
34. Trust them.
35. Cheer their accomplishments.
36. Encourage them to think big.
37. Introduce them to people of excellence.
38. Share a meal together.
39. Empower them to help and be themselves.
40. Love them no matter what.